Risky play is an important part of growth and development, and instrumental in lifelong learning.
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When kids engage in risky play, they can:
- be challenged and solve problems
- connect to the outdoors
- direct their own play
- be physically active
- be creative and curious
- demonstrate confidence and independence
The way we respond to our kids’ risk-taking is equally important. They need to know we have confidence in them – that they can do it – and also that we are always nearby.
Take a positive approach.
Encourage your kids to try new things. Ask them what they want to try at the park today, or which direction they want to go on your walk. When your kids do something outside their comfort zone, offer high fives and hugs and lots of positive reinforcement.
Be ready to support.
You can show your kids you are there for support by paying attention – your kids will look over to see if you are watching! This also lets them know you are available to help if they need it.
What you say matters.
Try to avoid “be careful.” Instead, reframe your language to something supportive such as “It’s brave of you to climb so high. Do you see lots of places to put your hands and feet?” or, “How are you planning to get down from there?” and, “You’re doing great. Let me know if you need help with the next move!”
Let them decide.
If your kids don’t want to climb all the way to the top, that’s great. If they do, that’s great, too. Your kids need you for support and encouragement, but not for pushing them to do something they aren’t quite ready for.
Have fun!
Risky play does teach your kids confidence and problem solving, but it’s still play. And the essence of play is joy!